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Please Grab Some Coriander Leaves
Oh, you meant Cilantro!
My wife Sasmita is an Indian immigrant. She came to the US on a K-1 fiancee visa on July 14, 2012. We married a few weeks later. Though we’re both brown-skinned Indians, our backgrounds could not be more different.
In our marriage infancy, Sasmita stayed in our apartment in Washington, D.C, while I commuted to my office. Being new to the US, she explored the city and our neighborhood while I worked.
She had never seen so many black people. Or girls on bikes, even wearing skirts. The list goes on and on. I could write a book about all the new and different things she saw and experienced.
I returned home and most days she had a new adventure to tell me about. It was great fun, learning about US culture and everyday life through her eyes.
I did the majority of the grocery shopping. There was a grocery store a few blocks from our apartment. And every few weeks we’d travel about half an hour away to an Indian grocery store. That way she could pick up items she was familiar with.
On multiple occasions, as I was leaving for the store, she’d ask me to buy coriander leaves.
I’d trek to the store, search for coriander leaves, never find them and come back empty-handed. Surely I thought to myself, one of…
